Foreverpurple

In her lunatic rantings to me on the phone, obviously in full melt down because Matt chose me over her, Doni accused me of being too possessive and controlling. She warned me that I was going to lose him if I didn’t stop being so controlling.

How can one be ‘controlling and possessive’ and yet be the same person who asked for an open relationship? How controlling and possessive am I to give him full permission to have sex with any woman he wanted? Maybe she’s just pissed because he could have fucked her but didn’t want to? (They both claim they didn’t) This has never been about him having sex with someone else, it is about lying to me.

The other accusation I found amusing was that I am keeping Matt from his family and friends. This is something Charlie and Stacy have said in the past as well. This is a result of Matt avoiding them but not telling them it’s because he doesn’t want to spend time with them. He uses me as an excuse to get out of it. I’ve never told him that he couldn’t hang out with anyone. I told him that he could not loan Charlie anymore money but that’s because it never gets paid back. I’ve certainly never told him he can’t see his family. He talks to them all at least once a week (far more than I talk to mine) and whenever he WANTS to go home, he does.

But lets pretend that I’m making all of that up. Then how does one (nutty bitch) explain the fact that I have such a great relationship with the entire family? They all seem to love me and Matt says they do. So much in fact, this past christmas Matt’s dad told him he should propose to me.

I’m having a good laugh over Doni’s meltdown. The cryptic headline messages she keeps leaving for me are particularly funny. She has the profile set to private so there’s not much to see. Her husband would probably not be amused by her high school games (his words). First the ‘prank’ phone calls to me after Matt dumped her again and now the MySpace? messages. She’s have a hard time accepting the fact that Matt doesn’t really want her when it comes down to it. Ending his friendship with her was his idea, not mine. All along I’ve told him that I can’t make him do anything he doesn’t want to do. Did I want him to end it? Yup, of course I did but I didn’t tell him to do it.