Matt has been bumped off his Salem to Dexter board and as of right now is on Salem to Chicago. I had hoped things were settling down for him but it seems not quite yet! I also heard some news yesterday about my job that is a little unsettling but nothing I can do about it right now. I want to work closer to home but I don’t know that I have many options right now.

I think we are both just about over our head colds but we both sound terrible with our coughing. October has been wet, the wettest on record. I haven’t put up the last of my Halloween decorations outside because its too wet. At least I can put them up Saturday morning if its not raining again.

Matt’s ex wife turned up on MySpace and sent him a message. She has some old pictures of his I guess. So they have been emailing a little bit, which Matt lets me read. Not sure about this but I’m trying hard to have faith in him. I don’t trust her motives but I won’t tell him who he can or can’t talk to. I want to trust him to know what’s ok and what’s not and to set boundaries. I’m struggling with it but we are talking through it.